Sunday, November 16, 2003

Read the article about 'Date Rape', in quotes, in the Lifestyle section of The Sunday Times. It covers how some girls don't know how to say No to sex, or are not demanding enough in saying no, and the boyfriend/stranger for a one night stand misunderstands. They say that the guys will follow the body language, not what the girl says. They paint a picture of girls who ask the guy back to their place, sometimes only to kiss or talk, but end up havingn sex even though they don't want to. Poor girls. I say they deserve it. Call me callous, but hey, if you ask a horny guy back to your place and only want to kiss, that's not gonna happen, man. No way. Guys think about ONE thing. Especially if you don't even KNOW the girl. The girl asks you back to her place, boy, you think you're gonna get some. And you will do anything to get some. So, i don't think the girls are 'poor things'. they deserve it.

EDIT - Ok, let me clarify some stuff. I think, know and believe that Rape is wrong, no matter the circumstances. but what i have mentioned above is not rape. it is 'rape' with quotes. in other words, it was consensual, but the girl complains that she actually did not want it, on hindsight. in other words, at that time she did not protest. it was after it was done that she thought, 'darn. i didn't want that. i wonder why i did not protest enough/was not quick enough to say no'. hope its clear enough now:)

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